Yelling, arguing in front of the kids, running away, posting negative things on social media, confiding in the opposite sex, withholding sex, silent treatment, bringing up the past, etc.
Researchers have given many estimates of divorce rates in America. Some say that 42-45% of first time marriages end in divorce. 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. But you don’t have to be in this statistic! Face your problems, don’t run from them. In fact, if you run, they go with you. That is why so many second marriages fail.
Hi! My name is Joe Follette, Jr. I’m excited that you are here. I help couples on the brink of divorce rediscover their love story and live happily ever after. Is that what you want? Keep reading and I’ll show you how I can help you become the next Sizzling Hot Marriage in town!
With over 30 years of experience helping hundreds of couples learn how to communicate and reconnect, I can help you take your marriage to the next level. My unique approach has been so successful I will give you your money back if you complete 100% of the program and experience no individual and interpersonal growth. I believe in you and I’m confident with the help of my team you can achieve the level of intimacy you’ve dreamed of having.
You become a Sizzling Hot Marriage by finding your secure self and becoming 100% committed to doing what it takes to stay happily married the rest of your life. This happens when you get a Sizzle Mindset and establish the 9 marriage mindsets in your marriage. These are the things couples in happy marriages do to stay happy. If you do them, you’ll be happy too! The problem is, you haven’t been taught these principles. I’m here to teach you now. But change doesn’t happen over night. It takes time to heal and mature after lifelong addictions, self-sabotaging thoughts and destructive behaviors. It takes time to change your marriage. This 18-Month coaching program provides an environment to sustain your focus on improving your marriage long enough to make it through the rocky journey of rebuilding your relationship and enduring till death do you part.
The interaction of all these treatment modalities helps you experience the mindset shifts needed to erase the negativity, become a loving partnership and create a happy home. This is not a get-fixed-quick program. This 9-month therapy and coaching program will help you learn what it takes to become a harmonious couple and guide you on a wonderful journey to improved communication and deepened intimacy. You will get to know each other better and come to agreement on issues that have kept you apart. You will ensure your marriage lasts as long as you planned when you said “I do”.
The Sizzling Hot Marriage Rehab is an 6 to 18 month treatment program for couples who desire to not only SAVE their marriage but to GROW their marriage and LOVE their marriage. The program is divided into three modules addressing couples in their various stages of development. Most couples entering this program have considered divorce as an option to relieve themselves of their stress but have determined that they want to strengthen their marriage instead. Many have experienced severe injuries from demeaning arguments, infidelity, addictions, mental/emotional challenges, and domestic abuse. Many have co-occurring disorders such as anxiety, depression, substance abuse, ADHD, personality disorders, and other diagnosed or undiagnosed disorders. They want to have a vibrant fulfilling marriage and have determined to do whatever it takes to not become a statistic. Couples in this program want to rebuild trust, overcome negative patterns of thinking, and learn new ways of communicating, thinking, and behaving.
The 6 to 18 month Sizzling Hot Marriage Rehab program is broken up into three 6-month modules: SAVE, GROW, and LOVE. Couples contract one module at a time based on their progress, need, and wishes.
The SAVE module is for couples who are on the brink of divorce. Usually, a crisis drives couples into treatment when they realize they must do something about their marriage. For most couples, there has been an erosion of trust from awful fights, broken promises, infidelity, and/or a loss of emotional connection. During these first six months treatment is designed to interrupt the toxic patterns that have developed over the course of their relationship. During this stage couples dealing with infidelity complete the ‘Fix Your Marriage After Infidelity Course’ and couples dealing with high conflict complete the ‘Nasty No More Course’. Couples who have experienced infidelity go through the six steps of healing from infidelity. Couples who are experiencing high conflict go through the 11 steps of healing from conflict.
During the GROW module, couples get a relationship assessment, individual and couple therapy, and complete the 16-week Stop Arguing Course. Couples commit to spending five hours of undivided attention focusing on each other and completing the assignments in these lessons.
The LOVE module is for couples who desire to experience the highest levels of intimacy and synchronicity in their marriage. During this stage, couples take a deep dive into understanding and practicing the ten principles of the Sizzle Mindset. The training during this module takes couples to the level of loving their marriage.
Couples struggling with deeper issues require discovery and deep healing. This may include co-occurring disorders such as anxiety, depression, anger issues, substance abuse, ADHD, personality disorders, and other diagnosed or undiagnosed disorders. These couples must complete the SAVE stage prior to the GROW or LOVE module. With their purchase, couples get a 12-month membership in Sizzling Hot Marriage Rehab which includes 2 monthly group coaching calls.
While going through these modules couples are developing the mindset to sustain a happy marriage. Along the journey, couples develop strong supportive relationships with other couples in the Sizzling Hot Marriage Community.
*Our guarantee is that if both of you do the work you will successfully reach your relationship goals.
The Sizzling Hot Marriage Community will become your family to lean on and help you get through the challenges of this journey. You will feel the love and well wishes that will inspire you on to greater heights in your marriage.
You can begin to feel all alone and isolated in a bad marriage. You get to be with people who know exactly how you feel because they have been exactly where you are. You will keep one another inspired as you experience the peaks and valley's of treatment.
Because you are among others who are seeking to improve their marriage you are among people with like minds who you can gel with. This group is full of positive power couples who are making a difference in the world.
Being in a unhappy marriage can make you feel like something is wrong with you and that you are not important. In this group setting you will be among others just like yourself. You will get positive peer pressure to be your best self.
The amazing power of being a part of a therapeutic group accomplishes three things. Firstly, it gives you a sense of what a healthy family feels like where you can get positive nurturing and discipline to help you develop good character traits.
Secondly, it helps you look at yourself as you look and hear from others who share their experience. Change will happen in you as you are moved to tears when you hear someone else’s experience. Within the group you will also be held accountable to be the best you you are striving to be. Lastly, the group gives you an opportunity to make a positive contribution to the lives of others. You sharing your story and providing words of advice will help another traveler on this highway to a happy marriage.
Be the next Sizzling Hot Marriage in Town!
What couples say about the program
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