About Joe Follette Jr.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist | Creator of the NORM System

Joe Follette Jr., M.Div., LMFT

Joe Follette Jr. is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, ordained minister, and the creator of the Neurobehavioral Operant Rewiring Model (NORM) — a science-based transformation system that helps struggling couples rewire their relationship patterns at the neurological level. With over 20 years of experience in ministry, counseling, and clinical therapy, Joe brings a unique blend of faith-driven wisdom and evidence-based methodology to his practice. He is the author of Don't Give Up On Love and the founder of both Sizzling Hot Marriage and Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching. Joe holds a Master of Divinity degree and is licensed as an LMFT. He provides telehealth services nationwide and specializes in couples experiencing trust wounds, communication breakdowns, and emotional disconnection.

M.Div., Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Creator of NORM (Neurobehavioral Operant Rewiring Model)
Author of Don't Give Up On Love
20+ years in ministry, counseling & clinical therapy
Telehealth available nationwide
Specialties: Trust wounds, communication, emotional disconnection

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Joseph L. Follette, Jr., LMFT, {LMFT}

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Most people don’t struggle in relationships because they don’t care—they struggle because they’re stuck in patterns they can’t see. You might be having the same conversations, feeling disconnected even when things seem “fine,” or wondering why things aren’t changing despite your… Read more

effort. The problem isn’t effort. It’s not seeing what’s driving the pattern. I help individuals and couples identify and change the patterns behind their reactions, communication, and connection—so real change can happen.

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